Guide to Home Essentials for Millennial Parents on the Verge of Losing Their "Cool"

Warning: If you’re a Milennial parent halfway through your 30s, some undeniable things might be starting to happen to you:

• You’re feeling excited about your upcoming voyage to Costco.

• You’ve catching yourself wearing th same style outfits that your mom rocked back in the day.

• You’re too exhausted to stay up for the latest episode of The Bachelorette.

  
  

Not you? Well, maybe you're in denial, but speaking for a "friend," these are signs you've been consumed in the space of parenthood. The good news is that there are still means to retain (some) of your youthful spirit. How, you ask?

Streamline your home essentials so you can do other stuff. When you stop wasting time searching for the perfect detergent or trying to organize your space, you’ve got more time and energy to skateboard or see who got the Final Rose. Let us do the work, so you can have some fun.

Home Essentials

Soft and Cozy Bedding: Sleep Like You Did in Your 20s

Investing in high-quality bedding is essential for a good night’s sleep—not just for you but also for your kids (if you’ve ventured into parenthood). Soft, hypoallergenic sheets and a plush duvet can make a world of difference in creating a bed you want to collapse into after a long day.

• Budget-friendly options: Target’s Room Essentials line and IKEA’s duvet covers.

Organizational Furniture: Less Clutter, More Peace

Keeping a space organized can be a challenge, especially with little ones running around. But the right storage solutions can make it manageable. Look for furniture that doubles as storage, like bookshelves with bins or toy chests that can hide the clutter when guests unexpectedly pop by.

• Budget-friendly options: IKEA’s TROFAST storage system, Target baskets for a stylish yet functional touch.

Playful Wall Art: Make It Fun, Make It Theirs

Your kid’s room doesn’t have to be all pastels and polka dots. Add some personality with playful wall art that reflects their interests — whether dinosaurs, outer space, or something in between. Posters, framed prints, or even wall decals can add color and creativity to their space without breaking the bank.

• Fun art idea: Etsy has tons of affordable, customizable prints.

Comfortable Seating: For You and the Little Ones

Every kid’s room needs comfortable seating, whether it’s for bedtime stories, reading sessions, or just lounging. A cozy armchair or a bean bag for them is essential, but make sure you’re covered too, especially if you’re spending a lot of time sitting with them. Bonus: it doubles as extra seating when you need it.

• Comfy Bean Bag: We’re a Big Joe family, but if you’re splurging, LoveSac is a fan favorite.

Soft Area Rug: Play and Cozy Comfort

A soft area rug can do wonders for making a room feel warm and inviting. Plus, it gives your kids a comfy spot to play. Look for rugs that are durable, easy to clean, and can withstand the occasional (okay, frequent) spill.

• Budget-friendly option: IKEA GULLVIVA white rug -- it's super soft, but a bit small, so consider getting two.

Adjustable Lighting: For Every Mood and Moment

Good lighting is crucial in any room, especially in kids’ spaces. You'll need softer lighting for bedtime stories, brighter task lighting for play or homework, and maybe a night light to keep the monsters at bay. Mix and match overhead lighting with fun, themed lights to keep things practical yet playful.

• Fun kid's lights: Lightning bolts, superhero-themed lamps (Spiderman, anyone?).

Personalized Touches: Make It Their Own

Adding personal touches to your child’s room, like monogrammed bedding or a gallery wall of family photos, can make the space feel uniquely theirs. Encourage them to help pick out decor that reflects their personality—it’s a great way to make them feel involved and excited about their space.

• Good but expensive kids’ art: Pottery Barn Kids has adorable, high-quality pieces if you’re willing to splurge.